Today in #Dlozlami we meet Nomthandazo who is having problems in her marriage and she does not realize that she is the one who is the cause of everything that is happening in her marriage. She write to Thembi because she want to connect with her mother who passed away. A mother have expose…
Today on #Dlozlami we meet Nomthandazo who is having problems in her marriage and she does not realize that she is the one who is the cause of everything that is happening in her marriage. She writes to Thembi because she want to connect with her mother who passed away.
A mother has exposed her daughter of not being a good wife and she want her to go back home and get advice on how to handle a household. Today on #Dlozlami we meet ancestors who are fighting with each other.
Apparently the couple went to Thembi seeking help but the grandmother is exposing her of being disrespectful towards her husband.
We meet the couples spiritual mother who are here to expose the lady. Nomthandazo’s mother in-law has warned her that if is she does not change, her son is going to take another wife. The lady does not respect her husband and she does not treat him right.
She speaks to her husband the way she wants. The ancestor both from her mother and her mother in-law side want her to go back home and get some guidance.
The lady has grow up in a lousy and screaming family. This explain her behavior which she is giving to her husband. The lady has anger because of how her father has raised her, which resulted in her taking out the anger on the wrong person which is her husband.
When she is angry she tells her husband to pack her bags and leave the house. Her mother is being accused of being the real reason why she broke up with her father. Her father has exposed her mother of being the reason why he got ill.
The mother was dating different men and she brought diseases to her father. Nomthandazo’s father has exposed her mother and her family of being the reason why her mother made the wrong decision.
Nomthandazo was paid lobola without involving her father’s side. Her father is angry because his family were not told and they did not eat the lobola money. The elders did not advice and reprimand her after paying lobola to her.
Her husband’s mothers thinks her son is perfect, she is saying that Nomthandazo is lucky to have her son. She also has a problem that she’s shouting at her kids as if they are dogs. She adviced her daughter in law to be calm and to respect her husband.
